There has been a misconception for decades about vibrator use – that it’s only for solo play, for those lonely nights when you find yourself without anyone to be intimate with. Indiana University researchers put that myth to rest by surveying thousands of adults, finding that over half of women and 45 percent of men used vibrators during partner play. Of course, you don’t need to see vibrators as competition for your partner. A vibrator isn’t limited to being just a stand-in for your partner. If anything, vibrators are more like a lubricant or even some of your favorite naughty accessories like paddles and handcuffs – they make the sex better. Vibrators can stimulate like no human hand, tongue, or penis ever could, and they are extremely precise.
Start With Classic Clit
In a study published in the National Library of Medicine, researchers found that over 36 percent of women get clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm during intercourse. It is not always possible to work fast enough with your fingers. Using a bullet vibrator on your clit while vaginally penetrated is guaranteed to push you even closer to the edge of the big O. In fact, this might just give you the strongest orgasm you could possibly have because you get both vaginal and clitoral stimulation at once.
Don’t Neglect the Tits
As well as being known as an erogenous zone, nipples contain hundreds of nerve endings in both men and women. Mix up the sensations by circling a partner’s nipples with a vibrator. Since the skin here is very sensitive, stick to a low setting.
Get a Bit More Intense on the Perineum
There is another little-known erogenous zone between the balls and anus of a man called the perineum. When touched, it stimulates the prostate, otherwise known as the P-spot. If you’re in reverse cowgirl or doggy style, gently run the buzzing toy over this soft patch of skin with your vibrator on low setting.
Put a Vibrating Ring to Work
The added sensation can be satisfying for both men and women when using vibrating penis rings. When a woman’s clit brushes with the ring in the middle of sex, that’s automatic pleasure right there. And if it’s your guy’s kink, you can also stretch the ring over his balls during oral.
Play and Poke Around the Prostate
Anal isn’t for everyone, but if it’s your thing, you can insert a rabbit-style vibrator during sex to turn the heat up a notch. You might want to hold off on this move until you’ve climaxed, as it can stimulate the P-spot and intensify a man’s orgasm.
Use It to Explore Multiple Entries
Try this trick if you’re addicted to anal sex but need vaginal stimulation to climax: insert a vibrating dildo into your vagina. Both doors are stimulated leading to a climax unlike any other. If you aren’t sure what will appeal to you or your partner, you can have some fun exploring. Use a vibrator on each other, gently running it across each other’s bodies. Just see what you and your partner respond to. You can lean in and turn up the vibrator’s settings when one person is into a certain sensation. Just make sure you follow the instructions on your vibrator. The most important thing is to use it safely; when you have that pat down, feel free to start experimenting!…